Haal hee mein meree mulaaqaat ek aisee mahila se huee thi usane mujhe naukaree na chhodane ka kaaran bataaya to sunakar mujhe bahut hairaanee huee. darasal, ye mahila shaadeeshuda hai aur joint phaimilee mein rahatee hain. saas, nanad, jethaanee ke saath aur bhee kaee log. har roz ophis se jaane ke baad bechaaree ko apane in gharavaalon se kuchh na kuchh shikaayaten sunane ko milatee hai. aaj tumane rotee jalee huee kyon banaee, subah phalaan kaam adhoora chhodakar kyon gaee, tumhaaree betee (jo mahaz 3 saal kee hai) ne hamen bahut sataaya aadi.
Kaee baar to bina kisee baat ke log isase naaraaz ho jaate hain, vo bechaaree samajh hee nahin paatee ki usake saath ye kya ho raha hai. kisee ko manae to kaise? kabhee bete ne maan ko kuchh kah diya to usaka gussa bhee bahoo par hee utarata hai. kaee saalon se ye silasila chala aa raha hai aur ab jab naukaree mein bhee tanaav din-ba-din badhata ja raha hai, to vo kaee baar sochatee hai ki job chhod doon kya? magar jaise hee use apane ghar ke log yaad aate hain, to usaka dil kahata hai, propheshanal laiph ka stres to bardaashat kiya ja sakata hai, magar parsanal laiph mein rishtedaaron ka diya stres bardaashat ke baahar hai.
Darasal, naukaree chhodane ke baad use din-raat saas, jethaanee ke saath hee rahana padega, jo use taane maarane ka ek bhee mauqa nahin chhodatee, to kaise beetegee usakee zindagee. job par jaate hue abhee kam se kam 8-9 ghanton ke lie ghar se baahar rahane par vo un logon ke bure bartaav ko kuchh der ke lie hee sahee bhool to jaatee hai.
Apane kaleeg/doston se hans-bolakar apane dard bhool jaatee hai aur naee oorja se bharakar shaam ko unake taane sunane ke lie phir taiyaar ho jaatee hai, lekin jab rozaana ghar par rahana hoga, to kahaan se laegee vo enarjee, phir to shaayad vo bhee unheen kutil mahilaon jaisa hee jeene lagegee, jinaka dil aur dimaag doosaron kee buraee karane aur pati se kapade-gahane kee dimaand karane tak hee seemit rahata hai, apane aise bhavishy kee kalpana se hee vo kaamp jaatee hai. aaj hee usane mujhase kaha chaahe jo ho jae main kabhee naukaree nahin chhod sakatee, varana ghar par rahakar ya to main paagal ho jaoongee ya dipreshan mein chalee jaoongee.
Sach kahoon, taras aata hai, is jaisee mahilaon ke baare mein sochakar. aakhir kyon parivaar inhen samajh nahin paata. shaadee ke samay to bada seena thonk kar kahate hain, hamaaree bahoo to varking aa rahee hai, to ghar aane ke baad kahaan chalee jaatee hai usakee ijzat. jab vo ghar-ophis donon zimmedaaree nibhaane kee koshish karatee hai, aur is koshish mein yadi kabhee kuchh chhoot hee jaata hai, to kee nikaalane kee bajaay kya parivaaravaale use poora nahin kar sakate.
Aakhir kyon use ye ehasaas dilaaya jaata hai ki naukareepesha hone ke kaaran tum ek achchhee bahoo hone ka pharz nahin nibha pa rahee ho, bhale hee vo har kaam mein apana sau pheesadee de rahee ho. mahilaon ko ghar kee dahaleez laanghen barason beet chuke hain aur propheshanal laiph mein to purushon kee baraabaree karane mein vo kaafee had tak saphal ho gaee hain, magar apane ghar mein kab unhen baraabaree ka darza milega vo khud nahin jaanateen.
Kaee baar to bina kisee baat ke log isase naaraaz ho jaate hain, vo bechaaree samajh hee nahin paatee ki usake saath ye kya ho raha hai. kisee ko manae to kaise? kabhee bete ne maan ko kuchh kah diya to usaka gussa bhee bahoo par hee utarata hai. kaee saalon se ye silasila chala aa raha hai aur ab jab naukaree mein bhee tanaav din-ba-din badhata ja raha hai, to vo kaee baar sochatee hai ki job chhod doon kya? magar jaise hee use apane ghar ke log yaad aate hain, to usaka dil kahata hai, propheshanal laiph ka stres to bardaashat kiya ja sakata hai, magar parsanal laiph mein rishtedaaron ka diya stres bardaashat ke baahar hai.
Darasal, naukaree chhodane ke baad use din-raat saas, jethaanee ke saath hee rahana padega, jo use taane maarane ka ek bhee mauqa nahin chhodatee, to kaise beetegee usakee zindagee. job par jaate hue abhee kam se kam 8-9 ghanton ke lie ghar se baahar rahane par vo un logon ke bure bartaav ko kuchh der ke lie hee sahee bhool to jaatee hai.
Apane kaleeg/doston se hans-bolakar apane dard bhool jaatee hai aur naee oorja se bharakar shaam ko unake taane sunane ke lie phir taiyaar ho jaatee hai, lekin jab rozaana ghar par rahana hoga, to kahaan se laegee vo enarjee, phir to shaayad vo bhee unheen kutil mahilaon jaisa hee jeene lagegee, jinaka dil aur dimaag doosaron kee buraee karane aur pati se kapade-gahane kee dimaand karane tak hee seemit rahata hai, apane aise bhavishy kee kalpana se hee vo kaamp jaatee hai. aaj hee usane mujhase kaha chaahe jo ho jae main kabhee naukaree nahin chhod sakatee, varana ghar par rahakar ya to main paagal ho jaoongee ya dipreshan mein chalee jaoongee.
Sach kahoon, taras aata hai, is jaisee mahilaon ke baare mein sochakar. aakhir kyon parivaar inhen samajh nahin paata. shaadee ke samay to bada seena thonk kar kahate hain, hamaaree bahoo to varking aa rahee hai, to ghar aane ke baad kahaan chalee jaatee hai usakee ijzat. jab vo ghar-ophis donon zimmedaaree nibhaane kee koshish karatee hai, aur is koshish mein yadi kabhee kuchh chhoot hee jaata hai, to kee nikaalane kee bajaay kya parivaaravaale use poora nahin kar sakate.
Aakhir kyon use ye ehasaas dilaaya jaata hai ki naukareepesha hone ke kaaran tum ek achchhee bahoo hone ka pharz nahin nibha pa rahee ho, bhale hee vo har kaam mein apana sau pheesadee de rahee ho. mahilaon ko ghar kee dahaleez laanghen barason beet chuke hain aur propheshanal laiph mein to purushon kee baraabaree karane mein vo kaafee had tak saphal ho gaee hain, magar apane ghar mein kab unhen baraabaree ka darza milega vo khud nahin jaanateen.
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